What is romance for you?

What is romance for you?

All people perceive the word “romance” in different ways. But of course this is a metaphorical notion. And probably this is just a special condition of your soul. However, scientists say that romance is a light trance, when all outer feelings damp down and inner euphoria overwhelms you. So how to describe this complicated phenomenon?

Maybe romance is an irregular compliment or even an art to make compliments! Or it is when…But is this really so important to know an exact definition?I will reveal you a secret! All these things which are shown on TV – dinner with candles, calm music and so on and so forth – they are only the external demonstration of romantic atmosphere. And they will not help you to avoid boredom if you are not interested in the person with whom you experience this. Sometimes, it is much more interesting to sit on the roof and watch the stars, enjoy the lights of the night city and feel how time stops around you, sense every touch of the wind, see the things which you haven’t noticed before, enjoy this moment of life and feel this life together with your close person. What do you think about these simple things? Romance can be different. And this is so, because it depends upon our attitude towards different things. For example when you live in the city, some days in a forest can seem to you to be really the most romantic in your life; however a person from a small town or village will be happy to spend some day in a big city walking through the streets and visiting different museums and galleries.Some people consider “romance” as flowers, teddy-bears, chocolates; others think that it is a long walk under the moon light. But our soul prompts to us that romance is a feeling which wakes in you when all the senses are very sharp; when you don’t want to hide your emotions and dreams and when everything around just seems to be better!

Is This Love? Teen Tips for Romance and Dating

Love can take you to new highs -- and new lows. You may have the strongest feelings of your life, which is great when things are good. But if things go bad, it’s devastating. Here are six dating tips to help you keep your head during this exciting time.

Dating Tip 1: Take Your Time

Some teens date, some don’t. “Girls need to feel good about themselves before they start to date,” says Charles Wibbelsman, MD, chief of adolescent medicine at Kaiser Permanente in San Francisco. His advice: only date if you know yourself and know you want to date. If you’re not ready, it’s cool to stay single and hang out with your close friends.

Dating Tip 2: Find Someone Who Likes You Back     

Feelings that aren’t returned can make you question everything about yourself. Did you say something wrong? Were you wearing the wrong things? In a healthy relationship, the feelings are mutual. You respect each other and have fun together. If this doesn’t describe your situation, there’s nothing wrong with you, but you probably do need to keep looking.

Dating Tip 3: Know When to Move On

Sometimes you have to admit it, the relationship isn’t working. Maybe the love of your life has turned mean and selfish. Maybe you realize you want something better. “If a boyfriend doesn’t give you what you need, walk away,” says Danielle Greaves, MSW, who works with girls at The Guidance Center in Cambridge, Mass. She tells girls all the time, “It hurts now, but you can get through this.”

Dating Tip 4: Talk About Facebook Before You Talk on Facebook

Social media puts the ups and downs of dating out there for everyone to see. If you like a guy or he likes you, it’s perfectly OK to ask him not to post things about you online, including pictures. Some things don’t have to be shared with the whole world.

Dating Tip 5: Protect Yourself From Pressure

Pressure is not love, and it’s not even normal. Most teens say they’ve never felt pressured to be in a relationship before they were ready. Still, a little mental preparation never hurts. Decide ahead of time what your values are and how far you want to go. That way, you won’t have to figure it out in the heat of the moment.

Here are a few concrete things you can do to keep yourself out of the pressure chamber:

• Avoid situations where a guy might expect more than you want to give.   
• Go out with boys close to your age. Girls who go out with older guys are more likely to have sex before they’re ready.

Dating Tip 6: Give Love Time to Grow

Sometimes the idea of love is better than love itself. How do you know if you’re really in love?

If you’re infatuated, need constant reassurance, and have trouble thinking about anything else, these are signs you’re not really in love. It’s fun for now, but in time you’ll probably feel disappointed.   

Mature love grows stronger with time. The more you get to know each other, the stronger your feelings. And you don’t have to be someone you’re not. You like each other for who you truly are. If you’re like most people, finding mature love takes more than one try, but it’s definitely worth it.

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